The ick in dating. That sudden, full-body recoil where someone does something completely normal and you just shut down. 64% of people have experienced it, and a quarter ended the relationship because of it. But is the ick a red flag, or is it fear of intimacy disguised as disgust? Therapist Marie Vakakis unpacks the psychology of the ick, what it reveals about your attachment style, and asks: are we being too picky, or are we terrified of being truly seen? This episode covers: • What the ick actually is and why it happens • Red flags vs superficial triggers • How shame, projection and avoidant attachment drive the ick • Are we being too picky in dating? • What to do when the ick shows up Show notes and more at marievakakis.com.au Got a question for the podcast? Email it to askmarie@marievakakis.com.au
